How To Get Back Together Fast: “Bugging”
Dear Friends
Bugging can be something the CIA or FBI or some PI gets up to like in the movies, but that is not what I have in mind here. I am also not suggesting you have your ex’s digs bugged to find out what is thought of you or said about you etc to find out if you have a chance of reconciling. No, that would be out & out dumb! Now read on and I will explain……….
The world is full of bugs and there are many great ways to get rid of them, they are pests that need to be eradicated. So don’t YOU become one! If you do, you may well be eradicated and this is something we desperately want to avoid. What I am getting at here is that you DO NOT want to make a pest or nuisance of yourself by getting under your ex’s skin in an irritating and uncomfortable way. DO NOT BUG YOUR EX!
I have read some quite hair-raising articles where authors actually recommend late-night calls! Damn-it! Stay away from such ridiculous actions, if your ex wants those late-night calls it must come from that quarter, not from you. You want to get back together fast, yes, but not at breakneck speed! You know the traffic department comes with little cliché’s like “Speed Kills!” Well this is true. This thing has to be built from the ground up, try to keep in mind that although you both are familiar with each other you are venturing out on a new path. A serious path, one that has be trod with care and affection and deep consideration for the other person. There is no place here for a “Bull in a china shop”, galloping-wildly-along type of approach, kid gloves and a measured pace are what is most in order now, OK?
You will feel the need to call your ex any time of day or night, NOT GOOD! Pace yourself and ask the question “how often is ‘REASONABLE’?” You should be basically aware of your ex’s routine and schedules, try to pick a good time to call that will be the least inconvenient for him/her. Another approach is to ASK! Ask your ex when a good time will be to call and chat for a while, and when you do call, keep it to a decent length of time. Do not be a bug and talk for HOURS! To keep it short enough that you will leave your ex slightly wishing for more is GREAT!
It might be that you do not yet know for sure just where you stand with your ex right at this moment in time, so you definitely do not want to rock the boat too much. We spoke about impatience in an earlier article, you may like to re-read it, all my articles are posted immediately on my blog called “Get-Back-Together-Fast” which is linked below
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As a husband and Dad, I truly wish you well in your quest to get your ex back together with you……………long-term!
Kind Regards, Ivan
PS Reminder form a previous article; Impatience can be costly, you would never rush into a business deal so don’t rush into getting your ex back
I am married and a father, I so deeply appreciate the value of a long-lasting relationship. There is something in that sphere of interaction that is far removed from brief acquaintances and living alone or with friends or family. A passionate relationship needs trust and time to build up, and once it is established there is no substitute. It is so easy to want out of a relationship when you are in it, and it can be very hard to weigh up the benefits when you are under enormous pressure emotionally.
Sometimes a break-up can be a very good and constructive way to build a bond that is more durable, trusting, familiar and more snug-fitting. Time apart gives emotions time to untangle and make sense, one gets an opportunity to stand aside and take calm stock of the relationship. I so strongly urge you to follow through with this, it is very well worth it if your heart says you truly want to heal your relationship with your ex, Dear friend. Life is so short, there is little time for throwing precious things to the wind. We waste so much energy fighting, and give so little by comparison to doing pleasant and love things. Working for a living takes up so much more time than family and relationships, and we need to address this as best we can, that takes commitment and dedication as well as caring thought and unselfishness. It should not be so much what "I want for me" but rather what "I can give FOR others", and trust me, with the right approach others will give back tons more than you give out
Go well, Kind Regards, Ivan
