How To Get Back Together Fast:
Schedule vs Control vs Pattern
Dear Friends
After a break-up we may want to get things on the mend quickly. Our aching and hammering hearts do not allow us the luxury of a settled mind and serene thought. We want to set a sort of deadline to work towards or even STRIVE towards, be cautious of this. The break-up was long in coming and followed a complicated pattern in its build-up, so the restoring process cannot be expected to be simple or easy. It also stands to reason that the healing process must follow a pattern rather than a schedule where you can “diarise a get-back-together party” so to speak
Each one us of will want to work on our emotional issues at our own pace, not at a forced pace. Complete healing takes time and cannot be scheduled
Over the millennia humankind has overcome so many obstacles to the point where he controls much of what goes on around him. Indoor climate, technology, vehicles, roads & cities, where wild animals can & cannot be, pest control, daylight at night, living in comfort below, on and above ground no matter the environment, even living in space, we dam rivers and control the water flow………..and OH YES! we make many mistakes too and the results of our efforts at control are often disastrous
This also applies to how we interact with each other, we can try control people while forgetting that we are all very individual. Crowd control is one thing, but when it comes down to the singular person we are in a different game altogether. We often get so involved in what we want for ourselves that we do not fully consider what the other person wants. Not one of us enjoys being boxed in, forced to follow a path that is not of our own choosing, yet many people have happily done what others want when they were willing to do it. What I am saying here is that when you want to get back together with your ex, your approach needs to be a carefully considered one, do it the right way and we can show you how. You can easily gain active cooperation and interaction. So what about the pattern then?
Make-up and break-up then break-up and make-up. Nothing new here, except this………the pattern is not one of manipulating your to get back together, but going about getting your ex back so that your ex is “happy” to begin considering the idea of not cutting you out totally after all. How do you begin to get to this point? Do not put your ex in a box! All neatly wrapped and delivery scheduled, no, gently get things rolling again and allow it to take its own course, and yes the course does follow a pattern. And yes, there is way to get your ex to the point of being happy to get involved in the healing process as long it is on his/her terms and pace not yours. There is no timeline when it comes to matters of the heart, but there is a pattern when it comes to healing a relationship and this is what we would so very much like to help you with
You are the one in the driving seat here, not to control but to guide and encourage. See the difference? We are here with expert guidance and back-up and a regular newsletter to keep you on track. And once you have succeeded? We would LOVE to hear your story and share your new happiness with both of you!
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As a husband and Dad, I truly wish you well in your quest to get your ex back together with you……………long-term!
Kind Regards, Ivan
PS Impatience can be costly, you would never rush into a business deal so don’t rush into this
I am married and a father, I so deeply appreciate the value of a long-lasting relationship. There is something in that sphere of interaction that is far removed from brief acquaintances and living alone or with friends or family. A passionate relationship needs trust and time to build up, and once it is established there is no substitute. It is so easy to want out of a relationship when you are in it, and it can be very hard to weigh up the benefits when you are under enormous pressure emotionally. Sometimes a break-up can be a very good and constructive way to build a bond that is more durable, trusting, familiar and more snug-fitting. Time apart gives emotions time to untangle and make sense, one gets an opportunity to stand aside and take calm stock of the relationship. I so strongly urge you to follow through with this, it is very well worth it if your heart says you truly want to heal your relationship with your ex, Dear friend. Life is so short, there is little time for throwing precious things to the wind. We waste so much energy fighting, and give so little by comparison to doing pleasant and love things. Working for a living takes up so much more time than family and relationships, and we need to address this as best we can, that takes commitment and dedication as well as caring thought and unselfishness. It should not be so much what "I want for me" but rather what "I can give FOR others", and trust me, with the right approach others will give back tons more than you give out
Go well, Kind Regards, Ivan
